You are hosting both of your families for the long Thanksgiving weekend and they haven't spent this much time together since your wedding. Their personalities could not be more different. How do you keep everyone happy and not lose your mind in the process?
When you tackle the important work of thinking about all the different personalities who will gather at your home for the holidays ahead of time, you are well on your way to happy-hosting bliss.
By simply touching base beforehand with your expected guests and priming them for all of the different options available, everyone will feel comfortable, including you.