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Age. It’s a funny thing. Or rather, we are funny about it. Some people straight up lie about how old they are. Some people whisper about it in rooms where only a few people are earshot — like it’s a dirty little secret.
But if you’re lucky, aging is something you face the Karen Arthur way.

Karen Arthur, is NOT in the business of hiding her age, or anything else about her — not anymore. As you’ll see in this episode, she’s done enough of that. These days she’s serving up nothing but sheer authenticity via any one of the many hats she wears. She’s a fashion model.

She hosts annual “joy retreats.”

She published a children’s book called “Grandma’s Locs.”

Karen even hosts her own podcast, “Menopause Whilst Black” that tackles a long-overdue and often ignored conversation about the intersectionality of racism, aging and menopause.

In this episode, Karen shares her journey of overcoming domestic abuse, mental health issues and generational cycles of trauma to arrive where she is today: 63 years old, Black, in the midst of menopause and fabulous!
I think, as we age, people who are socialized as women are encouraged to go very quiet and become invisible. People think we need to disappear. Well, I’m older and I’m wiser and I’m louder and have more knowledge and more experience. I am not going to be quiet. — Karen Arthur
If you or someone you know is struggling with domestic abuse or mental health issues, help is available.
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: (800) 799-7233
- Text BEGIN to 88788
- Click for a direct chat with National Domestic Violence Hotline
- National Institute of Mental Health

Credits
This episode was hosted and reported by Myra Flynn with help from our associate producer James Stewart. Our producer/director is Mike Dunn and Aaron Edwards is our story editor. Myra composed the theme music with other music by Blue Dot Sessions. Kaylee Mumford is the graphic artist behind this episode’s Homegoings artist portrait.
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