Here's something to think about as we approach the holiday season: Even though you may be separated or divorced from your spouse, it is always best to speak positively about your ex in front of your children. And this rule goes for everyone in the family.
If your kids are spending time away with grandparents, cousins and other relatives during the holiday, remind your extended family, too, to always be mindful of how they speak about your ex-spouse. The children are, after all, a part of you both.