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Awesome Etiquette: Can Valuing Manners Become An Isolating Experience?

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This week, we talk about walking the fine line between expecting etiquette from those around us and letting it negatively affect our relationships with other people.

This week, we talk about walking the fine line between expecting etiquette from those around us and letting it negatively affect our relationships with other people.

We answer this question from a listener:

"I find the majority of my friends, acquaintances and business associates don’t practice etiquette or understand the importance of doing the right thing.

"For example, lets just say I go out on a date. If I meet someone out for a casual meal and they lay their arm out on the table while they’re eating, or worse, don’t put their napkin on their lap, I won’t be calling that person again.

"Is it me, or can etiquette be an isolating experience that only a few can truly enjoy and understand? Not only do I find myself disappointed by the actions of others, but I’ve managed to increasingly become disheartened. When it comes to etiquette, should I continue to do what I think is right, and try to be an example, and not take others' lack of etiquette so seriously?"

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